What if I never met you?

Sometimes I think about the people I know now and wonder if my life would be different if I had never met them. Not only the people I love but also the ones I hate, because both of them have an impact in my life. Let's start with the people I do hate... well I wouldn't mind if I hadn't met them to be honest, but you know when you hate or don't like a certain person, it kinda builds your character because it sets your mind to not be like that person. I don't even know if I'm making any sense. The truth is I could live without that person and be happy so yeah I wouldn't really mind not to see her/him everyday. 

The people I love, well I don't really know what to think about them because there's some people we love but then we become distant from them and it makes us sad so sometimes I think that my life would be better if I never really met them. But then I start to think about those good, awesome, lovely times I  got to spend with them and I realize that the sadness of "losing" them is worth it. 

Ok, let's be honest I'm talking about a person, about a friend that I used to call my best friend. And I still see him as my best friend although I think he has forgotten about me. I don't really know what happened, we haven't talk in months. He met new people, new friends and started to do things he had never done before with them so we grew apart. Even when we're together, it's not same, we don't have the same "empathy" as we had once. But you know I still love him, he's still my best friend and he will always be my best friend, seriously. So I'm not giving up on our friendship, there's not much that I can do now, but in a year we'll be seeing each other everyday again so yeah. Distance sucks you know, it really does, you lose friends. Even if they are great friends, it's not easy.

Anyways, back to the point of this post, I think that things happen for a reason at least good things so we just have to embrace them so I don't regret knowing all the people I love even if they had caused me some pain or whatever. The people I don't like, well I think they didn't have a real impact in my life so I don't really mind knowing them.